Put "Have sex" on your calendar? Instead of thinking of calendar sex as unromantic, view it instead as a delicious form of foreplay. Send each other anticipatory texts, plan what you'll wear or not , and so on. This little bit of hardware is essential in a home with children, says Jennifer Flanders, who's been married 24 years and has 12 children, ranging in age from 11 months to 23 years. She jokes that whenever the family moves to a new home, a new lock on the master bedroom tops the to-do list. Even if you don't have a physical lock, creating a sense of boundaries is key, says Sacha Mohammed—married 14 years, with 7 children.
30 Sex “Rules” For People In Long-Term Relationships
Most couples aren't very adventurous in the bedroom. When it comes time to get down in between the sheets, few are bold enough to venture away from traditional standbys like missionary , cowgirl , spooning , doggy style. It doesn't have to be this way. There are plenty of inventive sex positions that can result in better orgasms for you and your partner, and they don't all involve contorting your body into a pretzel.