Which means you prooobably have a few questions. Using lube is a must during anal play, Joseph Frankhouse , M. Anal penetration without adequate lubrication can cause the tissue in your anus to tear. Not only is that painful, it also makes you more susceptible to sexually transmitted infections , like gonorrhea and HIV , board-certified ob-gyn Jacques Moritz, M.
A few years ago, I found the perfect butt plug. Yup, that can happen. We fooled around for 30 minutes or so, but when my partner took out the butt plug, it A few, er, brown spots dappled the smooth silicone. This incident happened some years ago, before I was more comfortable in my body.
We barely got enough instruction on vaginal sex when we were teenagers, so I doubt the majority of us are self-proclaimed experts on anal play. But anal sex is not a new thing. It's been around for a long time. We're just finally finding ways to talk about it in accessible ways. Thankfully, we know now that anal sex doesn't have to be super painful , and that there are plenty of creative ways to lead up to it.